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How To Identify Red Flags That Can Indicate Safety Issues When Dating
A big red flag can be picked up with how your date deals with money. If your date is always asking to borrow money from you, common sense should tell you that something is very wrong and that dating that person is unlikely to turn out to be romantically happy. If your date has to borrow money, then it means he or she doesn't have a stable financial situation.
There could be a myriad of causes for that, but regardless of the situation, your date shouldn't be dating because he or she has personal issues that need to be worked out. You don't want your dating experience or relationship to be one that includes someone else’s financial problems.
Alongside borrowing money, if your date seeks use of your ATM card, you should also be alarmed because your ATM card should be for your use only. If your date has access to your ATM card and knows your PIN, you have opened up and let go of a big area of your private domain.
Allowing use of your ATM card could give your date access to bank records, which should remain personal. So, another red flag is if your date seems to be trying to get hold of, or access to other personal financial records of yours. If you question the reason why your date wants to access your financial records, he or she will likely have a good or reasonable answer. But you need to realize the danger of giving out your private information, and not be convinced by your date to reveal it.
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